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There are many different attributes which a person can contain that can be both attracting and sexy.

Such things as humor, flirtation, physical demeanor, hobbies and mystery can easily draw our attention to another person.

All these attributes certainly stand alone and win attention, but let's talk about the element of mystery because it is often forgotten between girls in the general college-age range.

Not only can mystery be sexually and emotionally alluring but in some ways it becomes addicting.

Mystery is enticing and attention grabbing. The aura screams out with a secret aggressiveness and willpower.

As human beings, many of us have an interest in finding out what we do not already know.

We love the teasing game and relish in mystery being an object of attraction.

Staying aloof can create a certain type of tension that, if allowed, can build incredibly with time.

By creating, imagining and wondering what someone may be like in a relationship or intimately, we allow our thoughts to tease and entice us.

We thus deepen any sexual tension that may have been blossoming.

There are times when we can definitely feel an overload of too much mystery, but when purely in the moment it can be raw, sensual and amazing.

If intimacy is achieved after building up exciting and sexual tension, it can be an eye-opening, fully encompassing experience.

For many, college is about running into new opportunities and experiencing different types of people.

Sometimes mystery can lead you to consider getting to know people you may have never thought of considering before.

Part of the excitement about meeting someone new is often the idea of knowing absolutely nothing about them.

This creates a sexual magnetism for many and could excite desires that may have not been ventured.

Many people, usually girls, that I have met or seen so far at parties and such have either had too little mystery or too much mystery.

Too much can cause you to seem like you love the corner, are anti-social or just plain shy, while too little can leave a loss of interest or thought-provoking ideas and desires.

A good balance will definitely play up any attributes you might have whether dealing with your physical nature or personality.

Remember that mystery can be mental, emotional and physical. Teasing is one of the easiest forms of flirtation and in order to flaunt mystery, a bit of teasing needs to be involved.

Be a tease, but a good one. Be sexy and cool. Confidence is one of the sexiest things a guy or girl can express.

When you are confident, even if you need to fake it, people see you as independent and comfortable.

This allows the want to dig deeper and get to know the person underneath and helps a sexual draw to grow more intense and daring.

Whether you create it or it forms naturally, mystery is sexually exciting.

It opens not only our eyes but also our imaginations and senses, which can build into a full body interest.

If more than half of our important communication is body language, then be mysterious with not only your words but also your eyes, smile and body movements.

Relish in the mystery of one another and yourself.

Excite and invite each other. Build the tension to its limits and if you dare to handle the pleasure, let go.

( Kayleigh Wold is a freshman journalism major from Danville, Ind. She can be reached at sascamed@isugw.indstate.edu)